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thatgaydaddy's Lore

thatgaydaddy (aka daddy, dad, papi, unc, etc.) first came out as a gay man in 2016. It took another 5 years and the pandemic before it became official.

In December 2020, when everything was sideways from COVID, my ex-boyfriend and were randomly chatting when he suddenly said, “You should start an OnlyFans.” Of course, this was back when everyone and their dads were signing up on OnlyFans. So yeah, my first thought was, “Who the f*ck would want to see ME?!” So I started out on Twitter (when it was still “Twitter”) in January 2021, but I was so nervous that it took me a couple more weeks before I posted my first pic and story.

Folded over my bed on the cruise ship.
My first Twitter post, Feb. 7, 2021

Why “daddy” though? Well, that started when a 19 year old SDSU boy came over one night. We were laying in my bed on our sides facing each other when he said, “Let’s role play.” I agreed and then he said, “I’ll be the boy and you be the daddy.” No cap when I say that I froze for a sec LOL I wasn’t sure how I felt about that tbh. It seemed kinda weird to me but we ran with it that night, no biggie.

Months later, I met my future boyfriend on Grindr and he was maybe the second person to call me “daddy.” By then, I was getting used to the idea. After that, “daddy” stuck; he called me daddy all the time, one of his best friends said that I’m “daddy as f*ck”, and so on. At that point, I leaned more into the persona because by then, I felt like I had a job to do.

See, when thatgaydaddy was in his teens and 20s, the internet was hella slow and phones didn’t exist yet. It was almost impossible to hookup and it was even more impossible to find a hot “daddy” (or older guy). They were almost always never in shape, sometimes a little obsessive and jealous, never talked about STIs and sexual health, never wanted to just talk, and pretty often, were just plain weird.

So now that I’ve become “thatgaydaddy”, I’ve decided I’m going to balance out the universe. I stay in great shape (because health), I’m not obsessive or jealous (because confidence), I’ll promote STI/HIV testing, PrEP, and PEP (because health), I’ll listen (because daddy), and I’m about the vibe (because weird is just weird).

But “why are you a bottom” though? LMAO I get this question pretty often and I’ll be 100% honest, I have a LOT of fun being the bottom and daddy’s always being a top is just a stereotype. After all. there’s just something about seeing a boy’s face light up when he’s about to get some practice topping an experienced bottom! BUT, I am actually very vers! You just haven’t seen me plow a guy hard (yet). Stay tuned… 😉

Thanks for coming along and watching my sex life, it’s low-key hot that you like watching because I love putting on a show and being the “daddy” to all these “boys” (legal aged!) who want and need one. The year is 2026 and the “thatgaydaddy” brand is 5 years old! There’s a lot more to come this year including my YouTube channel with lifestyle, interviews, and much, much more! Grow with me! 🙂

That’s all for now, please be nice to each other, take care of yourself mentally and physically, and I’ll see you online!

How to keep up with thatgaydaddy

Basically, you’ve got choices! All platforms are FREE TO FOLLOW. If you want more fitness and my daily life, you can sub on Fansly. If you just want to see the s*cking and the f*cking in full-lengths vids, you  can buy the PPVs of the vids you like.

My X/Twitter account will always be FREE. 

It’ll have the most content on it in the form of clips anywhere from about 30 seconds to just over 2 minutes. I’ll post monthly reminders to go test if you’re sexually active, get treated if necessary, and to consider getting on PrEP and PEP to protect yourself further.

Fansly is going to be my new home and it’s FREE to follow.

You can also subscribe to me there for more personal 1-on-1 interaction and to see more of me in my day-to-day life. I’ll talk about life, fitness, what I think about on my walks, and of course, post solo NSFW content. Not only that, but I can also become your trainer!

Both my OnlyFans and Just for Fans accounts are also FREE to follow! 

I’ll do occasional collabs with creators from either platform and that’s where the full PPV versions will be available for purchase. I won’t have subscription plans on either platform and when a PPV becomes available, I’ll preview it on X/Twitter plus on either OF or JFF.

You can also follow me on Bluesky, Instagram, Reddit, Snapchat, and TikTok but I’m not very active on any of them. If you’re desperately trying to message me, I will respond to paid subs on Fansly or DM tips on JFF and OF. If you’re trying to message me elsewhere, I’ll probably see it, but just remember, there are 6k+ followers on X, 5.6k on TikTok, 5.2k+ on Snap and that’s a lot of ppl! I’ll see your message but may not be able to respond. 🙁